someone's got it worse!!

It was one of those days that i throw myself a pity party and was wallowing in my misery. I was counting my losses and debating how long i'd last at the bottom when a friend of mine came for dinner. I spent the evening listening to the new batch of problems in their life. This got my thinking to change so i started listing things that are great in my life.
It's mean to point out the joys of my life after another persons sorrow but to be honest, it's the only way you could get reality smashed on your face. There is always someone out there who has it worse than you. So chin up guys, you're alive and well and if you have a miserable job to go to.....that's a plus. Chin UP!!!!

Flat line

Early this year, i had the same old new year resolution which included losing weight,get into a relationship and save money.....it's August and none of that is achieved. Am piling kgs per day,my bank account is in negatives and no relationship in sight. I call this state a flat line coz i could use a couple of jolts to get me started into a normal life.
The kind of jolts i get come in the form of my friends and colleagues. These guys are a constant reminder of how things ought to be, constantly pinpointing at my wrong doings and my all-to-loud messes. Ever felt like serving a knuckle sandwich? coz that's my everyday feeling. I often feel like i could lock myself in the house and never come out but someones always knocking at my door. I wish someone could show me how to handle all this.
The upside to all this comes when i get to rub their flaws in their faces,HUH! You got that right. Now don't act like am such a bitch coz we all do that at one point or another. We relish the day our dear uptight friends lives comes tumbling down. It's the only moment i get to sit down with a smack on my face until things get back to normal and am the focal point.
This reminds me of some crazy things i did early this year.... i was in a relationship that started coz i was tired of being asked whom am dating. You got it.....I MADE UP A RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!! I revived an old ex-boyfriend who i haven't talked to in five years and had a relationship that lasted a cool six months. You might think this is crazy but it kept me off everyones sympathy trail for six months. Am sure i'll do it again soon if the rumour mills become unbearable. It was the perfect relationship if my imagination was anything to go by. I wonder what crazy things you single lonely girls ever came up with......

Baby steps

Hi everyone, today stands out as my first day to start a blog. i kinda felt the need to air out several things that excite as well as bug me in life.[i mean,who doesn't]. I realized that life is moving to fast and i keep playing catch up every few weeks. It's like i snoozed for a sec and waalaaa.....everyone is a step ahead and am stuck in a boring dimension of work ,home ,work ,home                                                                                  This blog is for every person stuck  in a runt of life, every 29 year old who is afraid of the big 30 creeping by, every single girl whose praying for a relationship and every clueless person who is not sure what to do next. ladies and gentlemen, you're not alone.......i mean,am clueless too.                                                            If you follow my blog,you'll get what i mean. Am currently hustling with all the above plus include several more. I mean,between work, school, raising a kid and no relationship....am a classic mess. somehow,i don't expect this status to change anytime soon. I figured that this blog will give me a clear picture of how worse things could get and may things might improve,who knows.
    i hope you enjoy the blog and post your views and advice here.